Lois A. Dodds, Ph.D.
Lawrence E. Dodds,
M.D., MPH.
Presenters
Caring
for People in Missions:
Just
Surviving-- or Thriving? Optimal Care[1]
for The Long Haul
Introduction
A missionary who came to one of our intensive care programs last year
said, "I feel like an aborted baby left on the steps of the
church. No one wants to finish me off, but no one wants to pick
me up either!" This was her experience after 20 years of devout
and effective ministry, which was ended prematurely and in a
devastating way through a series of failures on the part of her mission
and churches. She had been home from the field four years.
She was unable to work, had no insurance, was still ill and seriously
depressed, and with few resources to put her life back together.
Sometimes she did not even have gas money to come for follow-up
appointments. She is not alone in her experience of
abandonment.
Caring optimally for the hundreds of thousands of cross-cultural
workers around the globe who comprise the work force of world mission
involves a radical shift in perspective. Because times have always been
difficult, filled with political and economic turmoil ever since the
days of the Apostle Paul, the world mission movement has generally
operated in a survivalist mode. When missionaries
went to Africa more than a hundred years ago, taking a coffin as
a trunk, agencies thought little of caring for their workers over the
long haul; life expectancy was only a few short years.
Independence and "toughing it out" were emphasized. This
survivalist mode has been complicated by missions unwittingly adopting
the objectification of people common to the industrial revolution --
that is, viewing workers as cogs for the machine of production, as
slot-fillers, rather than as multi-dimensional persons.
This short-term perspective has cost the mission enterprise dearly,
particularly because attrition rates throughout the history of world
mission have been enormous. If one survived the overwhelming
stresses initially, one might still be knocked out of the race through
physical or mental illness. We know that countless missionaries
have dropped out due to the combination of long term stress and
insufficient organizational support. Most of these people are
lost to ministry, and certainly to world mission. Many of them
"fade into the woodwork," shamed and discouraged by their choice to
give up or their inability to meet the high demands of cross-cultural
ministry. Attrition results from inappropriate selection,
inadequate training, and sometimes the unwillingness or inability of
agencies to equip people appropriately, as well as from the more
recognized factors of insufficient personnel or finances, field
hardships, illness, family problems and inability to cope in the face
of another language and culture. (See Too Valuable to Lose, a new
book on attrition.)
Today, we have the potential to care for missionaries in better
ways. Knowledge about human stress factors and conditions such as
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder has grown greatly in the last twenty
years. We have made great gains as a movement in learning how to
train people to effectively meet the challenges of cross-cultural life
(though this learning has not spread evenly through the mission
movement.)
Studies of international and cross-cultural life have increased.
Studies on the high cost of care-giving among human services workers of
all types add greatly to our understanding of the needs of care givers
-- ministry and mission workers. Several books about missionary
care, as well as depression and burnout, add significantly to our
understanding of both prevention and treatment. In addition, we now
have an almost instant network of communication and other resources to
use in the care of missionaries. Most missionaries in the world
are within 36 hours air travel of their home country. The world
has shrunk so that resources for care are much more accessible.
We believe it is time to make the radical shift from survival thinking
to "thrival" thinking. We need to replace the goal for
missionaries to "make it through somehow" to making it optimally, to
actually thriving in their places and roles of ministry. We see
enough examples of this positive orientation to believe it can be
practiced universally. We see enough examples of those wilting
because of the survivalist approach to know that it does a great
disservice to the cause of Christ, the church, and
missions. O’Donnell (1995) obtained ratings from 96
cross-cultural workers in pioneer situations, including non-westerners,
and found that the average rating by them for the quality of team life
they experienced was 2.75, on a scale of 1 to 5, with 3 being adequate
and 5 being excellent. We believe it would be fairly safe to
assume this rating would apply to their mission experience in general,
since team life incorporates most of the dimensions of need we will be
describing here.
A few examples illustrate the deficiencies of the survivalist and
object mode. We know of a mission that believes it is not
important for its workers to learn the national language. That
would take too long and cost too much, so one person translates for a
team of almost a dozen. Imagine the unnecessary stresses that
adds to those workers! It seems analogous to asking a team to
climb Mt. Everest without providing parkas, oxygen, training or
conditioning. We know of missions which give people a few days of
"training" in a U.S. city to prepare them for ministry in rural
Africa. We know of missions who do so little screening that
people end up on the field without the emotional or spiritual resources
to survive the assault of culture shock, let alone to become effective
in ministering.
We met one woman who went directly to the airport from her mother’s
funeral (death by suicide) to a rural assignment overseas, with no
support in sight. We know many missions which never give
training on team work, yet use teams as their model of ministry.
No sports team in the U.S. would even consider competing in a game if
the teammates had never met or practiced together, or defined their
plays. Yet missions routinely assign people to "teams" with
little preparation about how they are to relate and work
together. People are sometimes thrown together with little more
in common than that they are assigned to the same country. The
reasoning? It’s too costly of time and money to prepare people
adequately. One missionary blithely told us, oblivious to the
significance of his own statement, "Our mission policy is to only
assign one couple per country, since two couples can never get
along." We have to ask, "What kind of gospel are these people able
to model?" Can they love the world adequately if they find it
impossible to love each other?
This lack of training and preparation
is sometimes rationalized on the basis of:
1. It costs
too much in dollars or energy (to give the right tools and training).
2. The need
over there is so urgent you must go at once.
3. We don’t
have enough time to train you.
4. Anyone can
do the job who has a subjective sense of God’s call.
5. You can "do
all things through Christ." (But there is no teaching on how to
distinguish what Christ asks from what everyone else expects.)
We learned first hand of how devastating this last rationalization can
be. We were overseas teaching when a young couple asked, in
tears, to speak with us. They were very exhausted and depressed,
and were wondering what was wrong with them. We asked them to
tell us about their responsibilities since coming to the field.
This is what they faced: Soon after college, they got
married and went to the field to be house parents for a mission.
They had a toddler and an infant at breast, and were parenting 23
children ages 5 through 17. The wife also had six national
household workers to supervise. In her spare time, she followed
the airplanes by radio whenever they were flying in the interior.
In his spare time, the husband did the purchasing and shipping for
members in the interior. They were finding it impossible to
keep up, and were feeling increasingly discouraged and depressed.
They considered the problem was their own inadequacy.
It had not occurred to them that their leaders were asking far more
than was reasonable. Fortunately, we were able to encourage
them and reassure them they were not deficient or unspiritual, as they
feared. We helped them practice some assertiveness skills
so they could speak to their leaders about their needs and their
limitations, and ask to have their responsibilities reduced to a
reasonable level.
Operating out of a mechanistic, task oriented approach relegates people
to "slot filling" and to being discarded once used up. This
attitude minimizes the need of the organization to care for people as
persons. Such an orientation causes great harm. Also,
insufficient knowledge about human needs and the complexities of
cross-cultural adaptation and the demands of language learning, as well
as over-simplification of the "task" of missions may contribute to
inappropriate expectations on the part of leaders. They may
look only at the maximum output which can be squeezed out of people,
rather than seeing their needs as whole persons, with multi-dimensional
lives. Another example of this view comes from our
experience in the Amazon, where the temperatures are usually 90+
degrees, with 90% humidity -- enough to wilt just about everyone.
When it was finally feasible to have air conditioning, the airplanes
and computers got it years before any of us people did. That
equipment was expensive, after-all, and good stewardship meant
prolonging its life by keeping it in clean, cool air.
The body of Christ is an organism, whose functioning should be growth
oriented, nurturing, and interdependent. Isn’t it
contradictory to intend to honor Christ by building His body around the
world and at the same time to treat His members as objects rather than
persons?
He has designed us, His children and
chosen servants, for eternity. Should we see only the short term
work each other can accomplish, rather than promoting His long term
goals of growth and service which brings Him pleasure?
What we report here is based upon the personal stories of many
cross-cultural workers, representing many organizations, countries and
ministries. We know first hand that even the best organizations
sometimes don’t do as well as they could in caring for their
personnel. We have also seen extraordinary understanding and
kindness in many people’s lives as their organizations helped them over
difficult times in their lives. And, we have also seen situations
which have been harmful to individuals and families. Sometimes it
seems this happens from organizations not knowing how to do
better -- and sometimes from knowing better but neglecting to do
better.
Types of Appropriate
Care
In another paper we have described the process of how missionaries
become sick and, through a "tumble down" process, are knocked out of
ministry. That paper discusses the kinds of care needed and types
of interventions appropriate at various levels of care. (See "How
People Get Sick and Wounded," presented at the Mental Health and
Missions conference.) A chart of interventions from that paper is
included at the end of this paper.
We use an acronym for identifying five dimensions of care and the
interrelationship of these to one another: SPARE. SPARE can be
personalized (SPARE Yourself!) or applied to others (SPARE Your
Missionary!). When we add a sixth dimension, we call it
SPARE-O. (This seems appropriate since our Father in heaven
cares for even the sparrow who finds a home on His altar or falls from
its nest. Since He cares for such a tiny creature, should
we not give even more care to His children, His image-bearers?)
The five dimensions of human
development, and thus of the kinds of care needed by people are:
a. spiritual
b. physical
c. actualization (achievement, learning, professional development)
d. relational
e. emotional
The sixth dimension is organizational
-- the relationship of the person to the organization.
Perhaps we should start with this, as the organization is the
environment or ambience in which other needs are embedded, and are
either attended or neglected. From this perspective, the
organization has crucial impact and influence, just as do families of
origin and culture.
1. Spiritual care: In general, missions
have placed most emphasis on what are perceived to be the spiritual
qualifications of a person, emphasizing the call to mission, training
in Biblical studies, evangelism, and practical Christian service.
There has been some on-going spiritual care of missionaries, most often
in the form of visiting pastors or occasional speakers. In our
experience, both as missionaries and care-givers, it seems the general
assumption is that people will be able to feed themselves from the
Scriptures, continue to develop their relationship with God, and grow
in their spiritual lifes with little or no help or stimulation from
others. We have seen very little actual training in how to grow
spiritually, how to feed oneself from the Word, and how to sustain
oneself when far from a supportive community of faith. The
relevance of such training is even more crucial now because of the
prior experience of people coming into missions, with more candidates
coming from broken homes and often having been seriously wounded before
coming to Christ. Our impression is that in recent years more missions
are providing for pastoral care, regular teaching, and encouragement of
growth -- but more needs to be done. Spiritual growth happens
coincidentally for most missionaries, as they are pressed to God by the
extreme stresses, rather than intentionally. The lack of
care pushes some out of mission work and leads to disillusionment,
discouragement and even estrangement from God. This is especially
true when abuses of spiritual power occur, when spiritual values focus
on the responsibility of followers to be compliant and unquestioning
rather than on the responsibility of leaders (and the
organization) to nurture, build up and care for those under their
leadership.
Most of us eschew the absurdities of "political correctness," yet in
the church and missions we often operate on equally absurd "spiritual
correctness" which may come from twisting spiritual truth and
values. We need to honestly evaluate these tendencies and ferret
them out. Telling the truth is not always easy to do so
missionaries use euphemisms and "nice" language to obscure facts some
people think should not be revealed. This is especially true when
people give reasons for why they drop out or return prematurely.
The real truth is often a long way from the "spiritually correct"
answer. If your daughter has been raped in the village, and has
witnessed so much violence that she is ripped apart spiritually,
emotionally and physically, you might be encouraged to say you are
going home to take care of your aging parents. That is more
"correct" than saying you are doubting God and struggling with your
faith because God did not protect your child.
The whole missions endeavor is based on spiritual reality, principles
and values. Building the Kingdom of God and establishing the body
of Christ are spiritual work. Having an appropriate understanding
of this, based in the Scriptures, is crucial. Our work is all
about joining in the battle against Darkness, the Father of Lies, the
Enemy of our Lord. Yet, many missionaries have no preparation for
spiritual warfare. Spiritual preparation and on-going care
must take into account that the spiritual battle is real.
Missionaries must be taught, trained and equipped for battle.
They must have proper support and back-up. To send them into
battle without these is unconscionable. It is like sending sheep
out to be devoured by wolves. Scripture tells us that we have an
enemy who wants to devour us. Is it appropriate care to send
people out unawares, unprepared, unequipped?
What’s needed?
1. Teaching, training and equipping for spiritual
warfare: This needs to be part of all candidate preparation.
To not provide this is negligence. We have found, first hand and
through countless stories from others, that we can withstand even
horrendous onslaughts from the enemy if we are prepared and have a
loving, caring body of believers around us. We also have seen
that without spiritual preparation and faithful prayer, God’s children
are sitting ducks for the enemy. Every believer needs a "survival
team" to draw around himself or herself; how much more so those who are
doing battle on the front lines. Jesus himself told the parable
of the Master who sent out His servants to collect the rent on the
vineyard. Each one was beaten and sent home empty handed, not
because of failure, but because of faithfulness.
2. Pastoral care: Pastoral care in the form of a
designated pastor for mission personnel should be considered
crucial. This can be provided for groups on the field, or in an
itinerant way for those more isolated. Regular and frequent
pastoral care is essential! Even "the best" and "the strongest"
missionaries will benefit from such care. Missions need to value
this care highly enough to assign personnel to pastoral, spiritual
care, including teaching, hearing of confession, serving the
sacraments. It isn’t very practical to expect that administrative
personnel, such as supervisors, are going to be able to pastor people
on the field. They usually have different temperaments, gifts and
orientation from those who fulfill pastoral roles. Sometimes the
difficulties they face are because of the supervisor. Expecting
their supervisor who is causing them distress to "pastor" them puts the
missionary into a difficult position. Not having sufficient
pastoral care in Peru was a hardship for us. We only had
opportunity to take communion once a year on our mission center.
It would not have needed to be that way had we had a regular pastor for
our body of 250 missionaries.
3. Self-feeding and support: Basic missions
training should include how to study the Scriptures in order to feed
oneself (not just cognitively, but at a heart level), and how to
create support systems such as prayer/care groups and prayer
partners. It’s fairly typical that missionaries don’t have the
luxury of going to regular fellowship such as one enjoys in the
homeland. Thus knowing how to feed oneself from the Word is
crucial. Knowing a variety of approaches and methods of
Bible study and devotional life enrichment enables a person to survive,
and even to thrive. Not knowing leads to spiritual
malnutrition. Taking responsibility for one’s own spiritual
growth is foreign to most church goers; it should be taught to
missionaries.
4. Teach "one anothers": Teaching people how to
support and care for each other should be set as a priority of mission
preparation and service. Caring for each other is implicit in the
meaning and practice of the gospel, yet many missions treat it as a
luxury to be tacked on if people have enough time after their "work" is
done. Jesus said, "...by this (how you love one another) will all
men know that you are my disciples." We need to elevate His view,
to see that loving each other is the primary means of "doing missions."
An example illustrates the importance of this principle of loving each
other ahead of "the work." While we were serving in Peru,
there was a spiritual renewal among the SIL people which came after
about twenty years of very arduous work in translating the Bible for
tribes in the Amazon. People had grown exceedingly weary in
well-doing, and many were losing heart to the extent of quitting.
One of the results of the renewal was the love and caring for each
other which developed to such a degree that it became notable to
outsiders who came to visit the jungle center. Visiting
professionals wanted to know what our "management secret" was that
produced this result. Catholic religious who visited said that
they experienced "community" more intensely there than they had in
other places where they had lived and worked. The result of this
caring was a spiritual explosion among the native churches and great
leaps forward in the fruits of Bible translation.
5. Re-examination of spiritual values and definitions, and
how they are practiced. Why do we give more emphasis to
serving, following, compliance, niceness (not confronting or
questioning), fitting in, faithfulness, obedience, etc., than to other
Biblical values such as telling the truth or confronting wrong doing
? (Jesus openly acknowledged that he insulted the Pharisees when
they called Him on it! He did not apologize for telling the
truth.) Why don’t we emphasize more the responsibility of members
and leaders to care for each other, to nurture, build up, "love
according to knowledge and wise insight"?
2. Physical care: For generations, the
only "honorable" way to escape mission service, once begun, was to
become physically ill. Withdrawing from service due to other
causes was not honorable. This attitude seems to have developed
because of the recognized role of disease agents, which one could not
help contracting. This made a clear case for the person not
having "failed;" disease was beyond one’s control, therefore one was
not held accountable for becoming ill.
It is appropriate to view physical illness somewhat differently now,
however. It is also highly appropriate to think of it in terms of
PREVENTION and not solely from a curative perspective. The
interplay of physical and emotional is much better known now than in
previous decades. We know much more about the role of stress of
all kinds upon the immune system. Psychosomatic disease is real
disease, resulting in real dysfunction. Physical illness, due to
whatever origin, effects all the other dimensions of functioning in
quite a predictable fashion. It must be taken seriously.
People must be cared for consistently and regularly, beginning with
prevention methods (such as health and food education and
immunizations) and progressing to regular interventions for preventing
or minimizing budding illnesses. (See the Mental Health and
Missions paper.)
We also know much more about prevention of harm at a macro level
nowadays. Given that many missionaries around the world live and
work in unsafe environments, often with open warfare, terrorism, and
the threat of kidnapping or assault, we ought to make use of all that
has been learned in the prevention and minimization of harm.
Contingency planning is a pro-active way to prepare for the likelihood
of kidnapping, terrorism, and other endangerment. We were
tremendously impressed by the protective power of such training when
our daughter was held up by a man who claimed to be a member of Sendero
Luminoso in Peru. She handed over her valuables, but was most
terrified that he would kidnap her little Andrew. She related
later that she recalled her contingency training and was able to stay
calm and act assured even under his threat that he had eight
accomplices watching her movements when he released her. Her SIL
colleagues practiced what they had learned about critical incident
stress debriefing (CISD) and she recovered from the incident without
developing post-traumatic stress syndrome (PTSD). We were
enormously grateful that God protected her and her unborn twins, and
that SIL had the wisdom to provide such training for the team in
Peru. Other colleagues in Peru were captured and sentenced to
death by Sendero, but also remained calm, interacted with their
captors, and were released the next day. They had the assurance
to even teach the terrorists how to use their projector to show the
Jesus films. God’s sense of humor no doubt -- the Sendero
troops showed the movies all over that region of the Andes, and one of
them was converted and went off to Bible school!
Another component comes to us from the experience of the U.S.
Military. As a result of the high rates of PTSD in troops after
the Viet Nam war, the military changed its training and deployment
procedures. During the Gulf War units were trained together,
deployed together, brought home together, debriefed together. The
vital role of a close functioning unit was impressive enough to change
the Army’s way of doing things.
What’s needed?
1. Initial health screening. Agencies need to
provide for careful initial health screening, giving watchful attention
to the underlying basic health status of a candidate. This
includes both physical and mental health. It is a major indicator
of how resilient a person will be under the high stress of mission
training and field life. One’s physical and emotional history are
the best predictors of future health and resiliency. Certain
problems predispose persons to illnesses which may make functioning in
field situations difficult. Someone with experience in the field
or world region where candidates will be assigned needs to make the
careful assessment of their health in the light of realities
there.
2. Appropriate insurance. Once accepted for
service, agencies need to provide appropriate insurance for both
physical and mental health care. In the stresses of the first
term and especially in hardship locations, there is a greater
likelihood of health problems. Providing good insurance is a
means of caring for people. Yet, few missions include insurance
for the areas of health most likely to be assaulted. Depression
is more likely than a heart attack while on the field, yet few agencies
provide mental health coverage in their benefits. In our 13 years
of caring for hundreds of missionaries in Peru, I saw only one
expatriate with a heart attack but many who were clinically depressed
and even at times suicidal. Ideally coverage should be available
within the country of work, not just within the homeland.
(Providing care in lieu of insurance is sometimes possible.
Placing medical personnel on the field to serve members is most
desirable. For example, AIM and SIL have a cooperative mental
health clinic in Nairobi, staffed by two psychiatrists and other
personnel.)
3. Inoculations and training in food and water handling:
If ministering outside the U.S. or Western Europe, this is
essential. The Center for Disease Control in Atlanta
publishes guidelines regularly for inoculations for diseases
worldwide. It is crucial to follow their recommendations.
People should be taught about diseases endemic to their areas (such as
schistosomiasis in Africa), and especially about protecting themselves
against AIDS and other diseases by carrying their own syringes and
medicines, avoiding blood transfusions and other invasive
procedures. Training should include how to sterilize and store
water, meat, fruits, and vegetable and dairy products. Not
knowing such basics may result in frequent, debilitating illness, and
even loss of life.
4. Frequent leaves and more travel funds. Agencies
should recognize that when they place people in locations where
local medical care is unavailable or not up to standard, they
might need to leave more frequently to secure good medical care.
This may mean higher travel benefits and more frequent leaves.
When possible, visiting medical personnel can consult with workers
about their health concerns, especially helping them sort out when they
need to leave in order to get appropriate care. Missions might be
able to recruit consultants to visit fields, though they should be
alert to ethnocentric knowledge of disease. Consultants are most
useful when they are knowledgeable about local diseases.
5. Designate a health worker in the home office.
Another medical benefit, easily accessible now, is to have a designated
health worker in the home office to correspond by e-mail with field
members, and to connect them with professional resources for
advice. Outside entities can also provide such services.
6. Contingency planning: Provide contingency
training to prepare people in advance how to deal with crises, sudden
evacuations, the outbreak of war, and so on. Critical Incident
Stress De-briefing should be provided for members after traumatic
events. Most psychologists are not trained in this method, which
is not therapy; it is prevention. Training in crisis prevention
and understanding of post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) is
enormously helpful. Goode (1995) provides an excellent overview
of crisis and contingency planning.
7. Crisis teams: Have in place a crisis team from within
the organization or another entity to respond immediately to disaster
and crisis. Kelly and Michelle O’Donnell (of Member Care
Associates), Karen Carr, Bruce Swanson (CBI) and others have been
laying the groundwork for a mobile crisis team. Perhaps your
agency can support their efforts.
3. Actualization: Cross-cultural workers
have the same needs as their home constituency for ongoing learning,
both personal and professional. A wise agency looks out for the
achievement needs and growth needs of its personnel. A long-haul
perspective accepts the validity of a person’s need for stimulation,
change of pace, and exposure to others in his or her field. A
short term perspective values getting more current work done over the
benefit of keeping persons growing and thus developing more potential
to contribute. SIL provides a good example of development
among linguistic and Bible translations personnel. They are
encouraged to attend workshops on the field, meet with consultants,
update, do advanced degrees, write professional papers, and in other
ways enhance their ability to contribute to their own growth as well as
to the goals of the organization.
What’s needed?
1. Promote life-long learning: Agencies can
introduce the concept of life-long learning and growth in the initial
training of candidates. Trainers would ideally model the benefits
to the person, as well as to the organization.
2. Encourage growth plans: People can be encouraged
to develop growth plans for themselves, not just their work, and to
talk regularly with supervisors and supporters about how to implement
their plans.
3. Foster continuing education: Missions can direct
people into courses, degree programs, and other forms of training which
enable them to stay current in their fields as well as to continue
enjoying learning. Allowing "assignment time" for study programs
is one way to encourage people to grow, so they are not forced to give
up vacation time for development.
4. Teach adult development: Understanding adult
development can help administrators recognize when personnel may be
transitioning into another life stage with new desires and requiring
new skills. These maturing persons begin new ministries or
assignments. In some cases, individuals might "grow out" of an
organization because of their personal development. They may need
to go on to another kind of ministry which better fits their new growth
and skills. A wise organization will see such growth as
beneficial rather than as a threat to the status quo.
5. Regular job reviews: Another crucial aspect of
continued learning is having regular -- at least annual -- job reviews,
in which each person receives feedback about job performance, mission
roles, and perceived needs for growth. Workers can give feedback about
their role contentment, needs for further training, etc. It seems
few missions have such a regular review process. One major
benefit is that it provides a natural avenue for feedback, so that
confrontation is not so feared. It also spares the worker the
traumatic experience of being told, on the eve of furlough, or while on
furlough, that he or she is not wanted back. Issues and concerns
are dealt with all along during field life (or home assignment),
instead of being "stored up" and dumped after there is no opportunity
for improvement.
6. Due process: Along with regular performance
reviews, missions should have in place a clearly communicated "due
process" for handling grievances, allegations of wrong doing, failure
to meet expectations, and so on. With such a process
available there is higher likelihood of restoration when a person gets
wounded and is thereby set back in development and ministry.
4. Relational care: We believe the
church in general, and mission as an extension of it, needs to
re-affirm that our call to Christ is a call to relationship. We
were not meant to live independent lives, but to be interdependent as
the body of Christ. Yet, missions often give only lip service to
the importance of living in community and in intimate relationship with
one another. Part of this may be based on our American
values of independence and self-reliance. Some have policies and
practices which pit relationship against "getting the job done" -- as
though the call of loving people on God’s behalf, so that they come to
know and trust Him, is a task to be ticked off a list. Some
groups seem to measure "spirituality" by the amount of work done, the
hours spent in busyness, the miles driven, rather than by the outcome
of people transformed, by being loved to Christ. They may promote
activities while neglecting to build relationship within mission
families and among team members. This communicates a false
gospel, an empty spirituality. Part of this may be because most
of us have not experienced this kind of "community" life in our home
country and thus don’t know how to create it when we move to another
country.
We have a friend active in the Korean missionary movement. He is
a third generation Christian. He tells us that to this day
"spirituality" in a Korean pastor or missionary is measured by the
degree of neglect of the family, because the early missionaries to the
Koreans modeled their "spirituality" by being so dedicated to the
church that they neglected time with their families.
This neglect became a (false) indicator of dedication. We know of
other situations where mission team members are too busy to relate, and
do not truly even care for each other. To what extent is the
gospel hindered when Jesus’ mandate for our loving one another is
ignored, and even de-valued?
What’s needed:
1. Value relationships and teach skills: Missions
need to teach and model the importance of relationship, within the
family, the partnership, the team, the organization. To attempt
to make converts without having the basics of relationship building in
place is misguided and likely ineffective. Communication and
intimacy skills, friendship building skills, support group formation
and maintenance, and a host of other skills should be taught as
essentials in training. Conflict styles, attitudes and
assumptions need to be examined. We have seen teams grind to a
halt, or explode, because team members lacked basic skills in
communication and conflict management. Considering that Jesus
said we will be known as His disciples by our love for one another, it
makes sense that Satan loves to use conflict as a means to destroy
missionaries. How many candidates are taught about the enemy’s
strategy for attempting to destroy them and their ministries?
People can only remain healthy and optimal in their relationships
through good communication and intimacy. Intimacy is the life
blood of relationship, as essential as the flow of blood is to the
health of the body. Without it, people wither up, lose their
resiliency, and lose heart for reaching out to others. Without
close relationships in a field setting people become isolated,
alienated, and ineffective. They may become physically ill.
SIL friends Glen and Linda Smith, who have worked under terrorism in
both Peru and Papua New Guinea, call their support group their
"survival group." Through the years it has been the intimate
relationships within their small group that has sustained them through
multiple hardships. They have supported each other, prayed,
interceded, and sustained each other in many practical ways. That
has been our experience too.
2. Include self-study in training: Self-study
is an essential aspect of teaching about relationship, for without
understanding who we are, and what made us as we are, we can not relate
freely to others. A program such as Wycliffe’s Quest (a 30 day
orientation program), as I taught it for seven years, modeled how such
self-study is a productive beginning in teaching relational
skills. We need to understand and accept ourselves, plus deal
with past wounds and deficiencies in order to get past ourselves to
minister to others.
3. Foster relationships across agencies: Missions
should foster the building of a wide network of friendships, across
mission lines, denominational lines, and cultural lines. We know
one situation where a young family in a Muslim country were never told
by their burned out colleagues that any other missionaries or
Christians existed in a particular city. They endured two years
of isolation before discovering some other missionaries who were eager
to include them. They did not have to live such lonely
lives!
4. Allow "time outs:" Another practical way
agencies can care for members is by allowing for "time out" when people
are in trouble relationally. Without being punitive, emphasizing
caring, leaders can allow couples, partners, and teams time off from
regular work to mend their relationships. Keeping healthy
relationships also protects missionaries from being drawn into
unhealthy and addictive habits, which are maladaptive ways of coping
with pain and discouragement. Giving time out for restoration is
far cheaper than treating addictions to alcohol, drugs or sex, broken
marriages, disturbed children, suicide attempts or collapsed
teams. (The average cost of treatment programs for addictions or
suicide attempts, for instance, is $1,000 to $1,500 per day, usually
requiring at least a 30 day stay.) Losing a family to
mission service, even within the first term, easily mounts up to a half
a million dollars of mission money lost! The human cost, of
course, far outweighs the dollar cost.
5. On-field workshops, marriage enrichment, etc.: Many
kinds of enrichment can be taken to the field setting to help persons
enjoy healthier relationships. Parenting workshops,
marriage encounters, personality type, communication skills and
experiential learning lend themselves to workshops or mini courses at
field sites. We often take such training to the field, and in
addition coach and counsel missionaries about how to keep their lives
in balance.
5. Emotional care: Emotional care, is of
course, tied directly to relational care. Missions do have every
reason for fostering the healthy emotions of their members, even though
some leaders idealize missionaries as "pioneer types" who supposedly
need no one but God. None of us was designed to be independent;
some of us just have illusions that we are. We all have emotional
needs, and to the extent that they are met in healthy ways we live and
minister effectively.
Every person needs to feel that he or she is wanted, included, valued,
appreciated. We all need to know that people around us love us,
respect us, value our gifts and contributions. To the extent that
a community, whether mission or church, communicates this love and
care, its members are filled up emotionally in order to minister to
others. Emotional emptiness is like an empty gas tank, stalling
attempts to minister because the person has used up what he or she once
had to give. Much burnout is created by emotional
expenditures exceeding emotional intake over a long period.
In missions we especially need to be alert to and sensitive to the
needs of single persons. Without close relationships, singles
will not likely function any better than a person in an
unfulfilling marriage. We all must be emotionally nurtured
by someone, hopefully by at least a spouse or partner and a small group
of people. Singles need families. Families need
singles. We need to be careful to not over-use buzz-words like
"dependency" or "co-dependency" in mission. This sometimes does
an injustice to singles who have a legitimate need for interdependency,
just as do married people. We notice that those who most often
accuse singles of "dependency" are themselves very dependent in a
marriage -- but they fail to recognize that their marriage is providing
the support which they seem to think singles do not need.
What’s needed?
1. Provide healthy channels for relationships: As
organizations and leaders we must provide healthy channels for people
to build close relationships so that their intimacy and nurture
needs can be met. This will undoubtedly require a commitment of
time, dollars for getting people together, and energy on the part of
leaders. But, as with all prevention strategies, a dollar spent
now is a hundred saved in the future. To not attend to emotional
needs is to increase the rate of illness, depression, and attrition.
2. Accept the importance of relationships for emotional
health: The strategies listed above under "relational care"
apply to emotional care, since the two dimensions are so interrelated.
3. Consider single persons: Be intentional in
including singles in activities. Give them the same
considerations as families. For example, don’t assume that
because a woman is single she has any less need for creating and
maintaining her own home, relating to men, or enjoying family
activities. When we first went to Peru almost 30 years ago,
single women and men worked 48 hours a week. That seemed unfair
to me, as the men all had wives to care for the house, cook, clean,
shop, arrange social activities. The single women did not have
wives, obviously, but no allowance was made for their needs to care for
these matters of daily life. We became advocates for them to have
Saturday off . And during that time, it was typical for singles
to be asked to move much more frequently than families, or to be
randomly assigned housing partners without consent.
4. Plan and practice means of affirmation:
One way emotional needs are met is through periodic and formal
expressions of affirmation. People need to be appreciated, and to
be told that their dedication and service are noticed and valued.
Just because we have given up much to follow the Lord in mission
service, we should not assume that we should overlook appreciating
others who have done the same. Having some kind of group
recognition, such as a gift for years of service, provides a natural
avenue for expressing thanks. One of the high lights of our years
in Peru was during dedications of some New Testaments. The
program leader would often ask us to stand, based on how our work had
contributed to the translation of the Scriptures. It was exciting
and awesome to see two or three hundred stand--pilots who had flown the
translators, nurses who had talked them through illnesses by radio,
doctors who had delivered their babies, teachers who had taught their
children, grocers who had supplied them food, printers who had made
primers and Scripture portions, intercessors who had prayed....
By the end, we would all be standing, rejoicing that together we had
made possible the translation of a New Testament in a language which
had never even been written down before. Secular organizations
give visible recognition -- plaques, emblems, etc. for recognition of
service to the organization. Does your organization give any
recognition for time spent with you in service, even if for only 5
years?
6. Organizational care: In one sense this
sixth dimension of care could be placed first, for it is within the
context of the organization that our other needs are either met or left
unmet. We believe that missions need to take much more seriously
the degree to which the organizational personality, ethos, philosophy,
leadership style, culture and policies color the lives of the people
within them. It seems this reality is often overlooked. We
teach about cross-cultural adjustment, but rarely about organizational
adjustment. In reality, we usually have to adjust simultaneously
to both a new cultural context and a new organizational environment.
Other than giving a general orientation to a mission’s structure and
hierarchy, some history and introduction to policies, it seems most
missions give little thought to the relationship of its members to the
larger body. Thus, most members are not prepared to deal with the
rather amorphous "they" who begin to structure and oversee their lives
in myriad ways. Because ministries in general, and missions in
particular, exercise widespread authority and influence in the lives of
their members, this lack of information is a crucial area of
neglect. People need to be given clear expectations about the
involvement of an organization in a person’s life. Unclear
expectations about resolving differences, for instance, create
difficulty. Having clear expectations is especially hard in a
democratic organization, when the "they" is really "we." Which
"they" do I protest to when "we" is hurting "me?" In a more
top-down authority structure, members are more likely damaged by
decision making about their lives and ministry which excludes them from
the decision making process or appears unresponsive to their needs.
We need to keep in mind that an organization is a living system,
hopefully an open one. It is characterized by the complex
interaction of power, structure, individual members, history,
leadership styles, goals and vision, philosophy, policies and
practices, unvoiced assumptions and expectations. There are both
formal and informal structures and roles. Sometimes the system is
faulty and the organization becomes the source of the dysfunction of
its members, so the members become wounded by the organizational
dysfunction. We believe analysis of member needs must include
assessment of organizational health. Interventions may need to
include systemic changes, for it is highly unlikely to make a member
healthy and keep him or her healthy while remaining in a dysfunctional
system.
Leaders are, of course, the visible expression of the
organization. Therefore they carry the responsibility of
communicating to members that they are valued and cared for.
Members need to be encouraged, affirmed, visited in their work
places. They need leaders to embody the care of the organization,
to express care and understanding. Members likewise need to care
for leaders, for leaders are one of them, members of the same
body. Members are guilty of hurting leaders, of not affirming,
encouraging, appreciating. Members often elect leaders for their
valued gifts, only to reject or discourage them because their
leadership skills don’t measure up to the levels of expertise they had
in their chosen fields. How many great pilots, linguists,
doctors, pastors, church planters, have suffered from being placed in
leadership roles which did not fit them and for which they were
untrained? How likely are they to affirm those whom they lead if
they are not also being affirmed?
An example illustrates the complexity of life within a mission
organization. A young couple raised what they were told would be
100 percent of their support, only to discover when reaching the field
that the support figures were old, and that they in fact had only 70
percent of what was needed. Lack of funds left them feeling
trapped, because even getting together with colleagues in the same
megapolis required money for transportation. The wife could
seldom go out with little children. Pregnancy, loss of a baby,
and isolation led to depression. No one in the organization took
responsibility for the compounded errors; the couple felt little care
was communicated. Both husband and wife became disillusioned with
an organization they had expected to care for them abroad as it had
overseen them in the homeland. Who was to blame? Who had
the power to correct the errors? The diffusion of responsibility
made resolution of the problems very difficult.
They described their predicament with a metaphor. They felt they
had been launched into the sea, but half way to the other shore their
sails were ripped off, the wind ceased and they could no longer sail
forward. Neither shore was visible. They knew not where or
when they would again see land.
Another situation we have seen is failure to define key operating
terms, such as what a team is. Prior understanding of what "team"
means can help new comers as well as veterans. We asked
members of one team to define "team." "We work in the same
country so we are a team. (Although ministries were not
coordinated)." "We want a ‘family’ where we can make decisions
together and we will all do what we agree upon and where we will be
nurtured by each other." "I would like a leader to tell us what
to do, and then we will all do what he says." "I would like to
work on my own ministry but have it coordinated with others who are
doing other ministries so that they inter-link." No wonder
that there were difficulties on the team. Perhaps there is no
"optimal" team, but at least members need to be clear how they
inter-relate and agree on what they expect of each other. The
potential for disillusionment and disappointment is high without prior
agreement.
Perhaps the most crucial aspect of organizational care (or distress) is
how leaders function. We have seen enormous traumas and
devastation caused through organizational errors or misjudgments.
Usually these come about because of diffusion of responsibility or a
particular leader taking on power which he or she does not actually
have. A field leader, for example, may compel the resignation of
members or send them home, even though it took dozens of people to get
them into the organization and to the field. Lack of due process
and unclear lines of authority, plus abuses of power can lead to
devastating results. We know of cases of Post Traumatic Stress
Disorder precipitated by organizational "malpractice" with outcomes in
people’s lives that are just as devastating as rape, robbery or assault.
We believe missions, the world-wide outreach of the body of Christ,
ought to live by a higher standard than do organizations in the world
in general. Our experience points to quite the opposite,
however. We sometimes see missions operating below the standard,
most often out of ignorance of appropriate and fair ways to relate to
personnel. Abuses of power are tolerated or excused on the basis
that "Christians should not sue Christians". The result is that
some leaders in some organizations seem to act as though they are not
accountable. It appears they lack the basic safeguards for
fairness and justice which are practiced in secular
organizations. Leaders forget that, as Paul said,
"God gave them authority to BUILD UP, not to tear down." (2 Cor. 13:10
Phillips) Over-emphasis on the values of servanthood, obedience,
humility, and compliance in followers as being synonymous with
spirituality pave the way for the tolerance of abusive misuse of
power. Those who are wronged are encouraged to forgive and
forget; they are to put it behind them and not seek resolution or
correction in the system; that’s the nice Christian thing to do.
Those who abuse power are often neither reprimanded nor removed from a
position which allows abuse to continue. The "whistle
blower" is often cast as the wrong-doer, rather than the abuser
of power being viewed as acting wrongly. We believe a serious
re-examination of attitudes about these matters is warranted.
British psychiatrist Dr. Marjory Foyle recently did a retrospective
study of 300 cases of depression among expatriate workers. She
found that organizational decisions or handling of issues were a major
factor in precipitating depression. (Her study is not yet
published.) Our experience with missionaries is consistent with
her findings.
In another paper, presented at this IFMA/EFMA conference, we list
several things which we regard to be mission malpractice. (See
paper for workshop on Selection and Professional Ethics.)
What’s needed?
1. Codes of ethical conduct: Mission agencies and
leaders need to have clearly written codes of ethical conduct for
themselves as agencies, as well as for their members. These
should include clearly defined, published, description of "due
process" for handling grievances, allegations, and so on. Lines
of power should be clearly defined, both in reference to assignments
and decisions about changes. No one person should have the power
to put others out of ministry, field assignment, etc. If it has
taken a candidate committee to accept people, it should take committee
action to discharge them or in some other way encourage their
departure. Personnel decisions should never be based on
third-party allegations. Members "in question" should always have
a right to their own defense, with evidence presented in person by
witnesses rather than being based on hearsay. We know of
cross-cultural workers sent home based on hearsay or lies, with no
recourse for appeal. We know of people who were "fired on
furlough", not knowing when they left the country that there was any
problem. They had not been informed beforehand that they would
not be invited back.
Amazingly, even these basic rights, protected in courts of law, are
sometimes overlooked in some mission situations. Leaders
sometimes assume that "spiritual authority" gives them the right to
ignore fairness and justice. We have observed first hand the
devastation created when these basic rights are swept aside and people
are thrown out without regard to due process. Mission leaders do
with seeming impunity what secular leaders would not dare to do because
a court of law would find them liable for breach of fair process.
It seems to us that such careless handling of members is as
reprehensible as the "sins" or failings for which people are cast
out. Such behavior is, among other things, a violation of
trust, as we are to seek to restore one another when overtaken by
faults (Gal. 6:1)
We believe it is imperative to establish a professional code of
standards for missions -- something akin to the Evangelical Council on
Financial Accountability. Mission agencies would commit to adhere
to such a standard and could use the label as they use the ECFA
label. One function of such a body for setting standards and
ethical codes could be to adjudicate grievances to give people a
recourse without going to a court of law.
2. Regular performance reviews: Reviews (including
informal mission roles and contributions) should be used to encourage
members and guide their growth, preventing "last minute" or absentee
expulsion from the field.
3. An ‘omsbudsman’-type person: Agencies should accept
responsibility to support, encourage, and aid members, both on the
field and at home. A positive way to do this is by having a
designated member care person, who among other responsibilities, serves
as an advocate for those in any kind or state of need and who can hear
and handle concerns with the organizational relationship.
Wycliffe and some other large missions have been moving in this
direction. Mission leaders should be trained in the care of
members, learning how to identify their needs and make appropriate
interventions with the organization when needed. Such a
person is like the "spotter" on the gymnastics team who watches out for
and catches those who fall.
4. Team training: Team training is essential for optimal
effectiveness. This requires a large commitment of staff time,
funds for training and on-field team maintenance. Yet, bearing
the up-front cost of this will increase the long term effectiveness and
reduce attrition, and in the long run, will cost much less. Clyde
Austin and his wife have pioneered workshops for teams, as well as the
parents and sibs of the team members to help bring the families along
as strong supporters of their family members.
5. Teach about organizational expectations: If this is
done in the beginning it prevents many problems and paves the way for
more effective relationships. Reviewing policies for fairness and
growth orientation is also important. What are the assumptions
behind the policies? Caring for missionaries means moving away
from punitive and stigmatizing requirements and toward restoration and
teaching. It means assessing policies and practices and changing
those which inhibit growth. It means keeping a very careful eye
on the functioning of the organization, as well as the effectiveness of
the members.
Following are some specific ways to foster optimal development and
prevent burnout in organizations. These cut across the six areas
of missionary needs and care.
Ten Ways To Foster
Optimal Human Development
In The Organizational Setting
1. CREATE A CLIMATE OF
TRUST. This involves warmth, acceptance, genuineness, respect,
honesty, integrity, consistency and fairness.
2. MODEL EQUALITY OF
PERSONS. Differentiate the hierarchy of roles and tasks from the
equal value of each individual person and his or her contribution to
the team.
3. MATCH PERSONS AND JOB
ROLES/TASKS. Based on temperament, motivations and job
readiness/preparedness, persons should be placed in those roles which
best allow for the expression of their gifts, motivations and
experience. Persons not appropriately matched are more
susceptible to burnout, as well as probably being less effective and
less motivated.
4. CREATE CHALLENGE AND
OPPORTUNITY which foster the development of persons intellectually,
spiritually, morally, and which allow for acquiring new knowledge and
skills.
5. INVITE PARTICIPATION.
Participatory leadership and decision making allow a degree of
involvement and "owning" of outcomes which contributes to the sense of
worth of each person.
6. REWARD DIVERGENT
THINKING. Allow for and encourage innovation, creativity and
difference. In the long run these are the seeds for and source of
organizational renewal and transformation.
7. BE HONEST, OPEN AND
TRANSPARENT. Clearly communicate one’s self (especially as
leader), vision, purpose, goals, plans, etc. (Hidden agendas on
the part of leadership creates suspicion and mistrust.) Make
expectations clear and give feedback regularly.
8. RECOGNIZE, ACKNOWLEDGE AND
REWARD the contribution of each person, especially those who by
personality or task are likely to be overlooked.
9. PROVIDE SUPPORT and RESOURCES
which enable persons to meet the expectations and goals established,
both personal support (such as for family and educational needs) and
organizational support, such as funding, space, etc.
10. AFFIRM!
CELEBRATE! APPRECIATE! - each person, each achievement, every
effort.
Ten Ways to Prevent
Burnout in Your Organization
1. RESPECT INDIVIDUAL
DIFFERENCES. Recognize that individuals vary in the amount and
kinds of stress which they can carry (i.e., having different thresholds
of over-stress). This is due to motivational, temperamental,
physical and other factors, as well as to their differing levels of
coping ability, skills and resources.
2. PROVIDE FOR AND INSURE
REGULAR 'TIME OUT’, and allow for unscheduled time out when the person
needs it. In mission situations which present perpetual demands,
four weeks vacation a year is reasonable, but more time off or out may
be needed, especially in hardship locations. Time out on a daily
and weekly basis needs to be insured as well.
3. TEACH AND ENCOURAGE
APPROPRIATE ASSERTIVENESS which gives a person freedom to state or
describe his or her needs, limits, desires, etc. Approachable and
responsive leaders, plus members who can identify their needs and
limits, create the most conducive organizational climate.
4. LISTEN CAREFULLY AND WITH
DISCERNMENT to a person’s presentation of his or her limits,
motivations, skills, etc., and to what the person says about his or her
needs. Be alert to unspoken, non-verbal clues to over stress,
such as "nervousness," cognitive difficulty, or emotional exhaustion.
5. RESPOND WITH EMPATHY AND
WITHOUT JUDGEMENT OR CONDEMNATION whenever a person indicates he or she
is becoming over stressed, exhausted, burned out, etc. Trust that
the individual knows better than anyone else when he or she is reaching
his or her limits.
6. OBSERVE CAREFULLY for signs
and symptoms (interpersonal, cognitive, emotional, physical) which
indicate a person may be having difficulty in the
job/role/situation. Assess these with professional help if
possible. (Identifying ahead of time a backup team of
professional resources for such consultation is very helpful.)
7. ENCOURAGE AND PROMOTE
PHYSICAL FITNESS, both nutritionally and in terms of exercise.
Exercise keeps one fit, which allows one to endure greater
stress. It also reduces stress on a day-to-day basis by providing
diversion and a break from the usual demands or interactions.
8. IF INTERVENTION IS NEEDED to
protect either the individual or the organization from harm, it should
be carried out with the utmost caring, loving concern, focusing on the
person’s need for renewal rather than on the loss of competency,
effectiveness, etc. Inappropriate confrontation which makes the
person feel rejected or judged as inadequate only contributes to the
downward spiral and causes further loss of self-esteem, depression,
etc. For this reason it is always best to discuss the person’s
needs, etc., face-to-face with him or her rather than to make any
pronouncements or unilateral decisions without consulting the
person. E-mail and telephone calls are poor substitutes for
communicating in such highly charged situations. It is also crucial to
protect the person by not sharing his or her private information
inappropriately.
9. RESTORATION AND RENEWAL OF
THE PERSON is the foremost goal in intervention. Be sure to
communicate that clearly, lovingly, repeatedly.
10. FOLLOW UP regularly with
those taking time out for periodic renewal or longer-term recovery to
encourage and affirm them and their progress.
Some Practical Ways to
Meet
Needs of Returning Missionaries
As an organization, you can also help your cross-cultural workers by
providing for re-entry needs. Re-entry programs offered by
agencies such as Missionary Training International or Heartstream offer
several benefits to help missionaries make the transition back to the
homeland. Such programs usually devote 7-10 days to one or more
of these elements. If as an organization you can not provide for
re-entry, you can encourage the sending churches in providing this care.
1. Buffer zone: A
neutral zone of time between the stresses and work of leaving the field
and the stresses and work of arriving home. This zone is both
physical and psychological in nature, allowing persons to move towards
some state of equilibrium before the next round of demands.
2. Rest: Time for
the body to readjust to a new "clock" or time zone, new climate, and
new physical demands.
3. "De-briefing" the field
experience: This includes telling about one’s field time,
including both negative and positive elements, with those who
understand and have had similar cross-cultural experiences.
This is important before encountering the reality that most of one’s
home constituency do not seem to care to know in detail what one has
experienced or accomplished. Having understanding and
knowledgeable listeners begins the healing process. A couple who
returned from Russia consulted us about their extreme stresses on the
field. Months later they told us that their healing began when we
listened to them for hours, validating their distress. We were
the first ones to listen without minimizing the awfulness of their
experience. Each time it had been minimized, they had felt
even worse.
4. Re-assessing the field
experience: This includes working on unresolved issues or
conflicts, and working towards the healing of the wounds of service
before entering the new round of stressors which furlough presents.
5. Update on the home culture:
This provides both practical tips and insights into the changes in
one’s own culture during the time away. Examples: how to
use an ATM machine in banks and stores, how to use a microwave oven,
new hair and clothing styles, the value changes in both secular and
church society. This is especially helpful for MK’s who may not
know U.S. coins, how to use phones, how to define a city block, etc.
6, Update on mission
organization: Returning missionaries are faced with changes
in the organization they have served, including policy changes, new
leadership, new requirements, new methods, new acronyms, new
departments.
In addition, some missionaries need additional care, particularly if
they suffer from burnout, depression, chronic fatigue, painful field
experiences or traumatic departures. In Heartstream Resources
programs we focus on the 5-10 percent who return in crisis or with
serious or severe problems. These include physical illness
(especially chronic or undiagnosed), exhaustion, depletion, depression,
emotional depletion, family and marriage problems,
relational conflicts on the field, "battle fatigue" of spiritual
depression, oppression, crises of faith, burnout, etc.
These elements are almost always intertwined, as problems in one
dimension invade all spheres of life when not attended
immediately. Our focus is on restoration in the physical,
emotional and spiritual areas of life through in depth time, assessment
and care by a team of professionals via these modes of
therapy: time out for rest and reflection with no demands
for giving, medical assessment, treatment, counseling of various types,
education, new skills, spiritual nurture and care and other
related therapies. At Heartstream we offer more than can usually
be included in a traditional re-entry program, including broader and
deeper support in community by a team with overseas experience.
Healing is best promoted in the loving, caring, body of Christ in
intentional
community.
Conclusion
We are called to care for God’ children and servants in the world of
mission, especially whenever we have any role of leadership among
them. We need to take this challenge seriously, knowing that God
Himself is our resource. We realize that what we suggest here is
comprehensive and costly. It may seem overwhelming to missions
which have limited resources for member care. Yet it is
reasonable, and achievable. If we as leaders will commit to and
accept responsibility to channel God’s abundant resources to those
under our care, He will provide. He offers us "everything
we need for life and godliness, according to His great and precious
promises...". (II Peter 1:3 Ph.)
Levels of Prevention and Intervention in
Care
|
Level
|
What we see
|
Goal of P/I
|
What we do
|
|
1. Primary:
"Isn’t she/he
beautiful?!!"
|
health; normalcy;
strength
life satisfaction
|
protect; prevent;
strengthen coping skills;
enhance normalcy
& optimal growth
|
teach, model;
nurture; nourish;
communicate,
inoculate,
group skills,
healthy groups and organizations.
|
|
2. Secondary:
"Catch it quick!"
|
microscopic changes;
minute disturbances
which are beginning of
physical or emotional disease
|
detect incipient
changes/problems;
reverse the process;
restore to normal;
urge life-style changes (to
reduce risks)
|
screening tests
inventories
questionnaires
train, teach;
organizational: job satisfaction
interviews and performance reviews
|
|
3. Tertiary:
"I hurt!"
|
symptoms appear;
trouble comes to
consciousness;
pain or distress
|
diagnose problem
discover root
treat symptoms to
reverse process
restore to normal
function
|
testing, questions,
interview, examine
counsel, treat
prescribe & proscribe
make life style changes to
minimize risk behavior; restore
|
|
4. Crisis:
"Call 911!"
|
life-threatening:
physical illness or
psychosocial crisis
spiritual crisis
|
crisis management
emergency or urgent
care
reverse process of
disease; seek to
restore function; some
may not recover
|
life-saving
measures
long-term treatments
and therapies
change life-style
radically
|
References and Recommended Readings for
Missionary Care
Austin, Clyde. 1997. Report to the
Mental Health and Missions Conference, Lake Pokagon, IN.
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[1] “OPTIMAL” implies the best possible
growth and development of the individual which maximizes his or her
potential. This is promoted through an enriching, nurturing,
supportive and challenging environment. In comparison, “ADEQUATE”
implies providing only what is needed for survival.